Adoption Day
January
2011
After moving across the country in 2016 and finishing our quest to hike in all 50 states, 2017 was still a year filled with many adventures and fun times.
The year
started out with some of Kellisa's hiking adventures featured in the new
book, families on foot. We also went to Yosemite
National Park for the first time, and the girls enjoyed Disney on Ice in
Sacramento. Our family vacation for the year was a week in the Pacific
Northwest where we visited several national parks and hiked with a large group
of wheelchairs. Kellisa really enjoyed not being the only one in a chair on a
trail.

Our
family would relocate from Jacksonville, FL to Sacramento, CA in 2016 for my
job. Our plan to move at the end of the kid's school year was changed when Lisa
accepted a position that started in mid-January.
After
spending many New Year's Days exploring the Okefenokee Swamp, we spent the
first day of 2016 at the Wichita Mountains Wildlife Refuge in Oklahoma.
We were
driving Lisa's van to California over the long holiday weekend and chose a
route that went through Oklahoma so Egypt could claim a new state visited and
knock off another state that both girls hiked together.
The
little girl who wasn't supposed to survive more than a few hours at most turned
16-years-old in May 2015. Kellisa endured 22 surgeries, countless seizures, and
too many medical appointments and tests to count or even make an educated guess
before arriving at her milestone birthday.
Left
& Middle- Blue Springs State Park
Right-
Merritt Island National Wildlife Refuge
Kellisa's
first wilderness experience happened on January 1, 2000, with a hike while attached to Lisa in a baby carrier at Blue Springs State Park, FL. 15 years later, to the day, we
returned to the park for our first outdoor excursion of the year. We stopped at
Merritt Island National Wildlife Refuge the following day on our drive back
home.
Egypt not
only wanted to join her sister on her adventures, but it had become clear that Egypt
also shared the same passion for travel, hiking, camping, and wildlife
observations.
We
started with a 25K race across the desert in Big Bend National Park in January.
Kellisa was the first wheelchair finisher in the history of the race.
After three surgeries in 2011, Kellisa was able to go another year without a surgery.
We
started the year off on the 1st of January with a day trip to the Okefenokee
Swamp followed by a few local hikes, and Kellisa's first driving lesson in a
golf cart.
Top
Left- Chasing Egypt (Okefenokee Swamp) Top Right- Julington-Durbin,
Jacksonville, FL Bottom- Golf cart driving lessons, Peace River, FL
Lisa
received an unexpected phone call in October. “We know you’re only interested
in school age children, but would you be interested in a 16-month-old
girl?”
They
needed an answer immediately. I was out of town on business when Lisa called.
Without hesitation or deep discussion, we agreed that we were interested. I was
still out of town the next night when Lisa called and asked me, “Where can I
find a hammer?”
Lisa
needed the hammer to build our crib, just in case we were chosen as the family
for this little girl. Instead of saying, “You don’t need a hammer to build the
crib,” I told Lisa where to find a hammer. I also figured we had zero chance of
getting the girl.
We continued submitting on children into the new year without any success. We were lucky if we received an automatic email reply with the subject, "Your Submittal Has Been Received".
Our first
trip of the year was during Kellisa's spring break a week after I completed my
2nd Bataan Memorial Death March. The first weekend was also Easter, so we spent
a few days in Texas visiting family before Lisa went home and Kellisa and
headed for a week in the Southwest. While in Texas, we went for a nice hike at
Brazos Bend State Park where we enjoyed its abundant birds and alligators.
One of
our all-time favorite places to explore and we tried to start each year off
with a visit. January 1, 2009, was no different and it would set the pace for
what would become Kellisa's most adventurous year by far.
Kellisa
had outgrown even the largest baby jog strollers, and we broke two frames on a
jog stroller made for special needs children. We needed a new solution and
after many hours of research, we purchased a WIKE. The chair looks awesome and
offers a ton of weather protection; however, it is not built for rugged trails.
We still have it and it has its uses; it's just not an all-around mobility
device for our needs.
Kellisa turned 27 years old today. We let her sleep in a little
and ended up going out for a movie and dinner. Everyone enjoyed the new movie,
Michael, about Michael Jackson. Instead of cake, we lived it up at an ice
cream shop on our way home where we sang Happy Birthday to Kellisa. Once home,
Kellisa opened her cards and presents before spending the rest of the evening watching
TV with her family in the living room.
Not bad for the 25 week micro-preemie.
Kellisa
went another calendar year without surgery.
Hannah Montana came to Jacksonville in January. The concert sold out in minutes before we were able to buy tickets. We even tried to buy accessible tickets without success. I couldn’t pull the trigger to buy three tickets together that were selling for thousands online. It was breaking my heart that I didn’t have tickets for Kellisa.