Not All Accessible Trails Found Below are ADA Compliant
2. Bon Secour National Wildlife Refuge
4. Little River National Preserve
6. Russell Cave National Monument
Not All Accessible Trails Found Below are ADA Compliant
2. Bon Secour National Wildlife Refuge
4. Little River National Preserve
6. Russell Cave National Monument
Having lived in Florida for 16 years,
I had explored many Alabama trails but often found central and northern routes
too rocky for pushing Kellisa’s mobility chair, while Gulf Coast trails were
frequently too sandy. Hoping to find a more suitable option between those
regions, we chose the two-mile Open Pond loop as a promising trail.
Bon Secour National Wildlife Refuge offers one
of Alabama's best opportunities to experience protected coastal habitats, with
a mix of maritime forest, freshwater wetlands, dunes, and quiet Gulf beaches. The
refuge features well-maintained boardwalks, wide crushed-surface paths, shaded
pine forest, scenic overlooks, and elevated viewing platforms that make
wildlife viewing enjoyable.
The
Audubon Bird Sanctuary
on Dauphin Island is one of the Gulf
Coast's premier birding destinations, protecting more than 160 acres of
maritime forest, freshwater wetlands, dunes, and shoreline. The sanctuary is
especially famous as a resting place for migratory birds crossing the Gulf of
Mexico, making it an outstanding destination during spring and fall migrations.
Visitors experience a diverse mix of coastal habitats, including shaded maritime forest paths, elevated wooden boardwalks crossing wetlands, observation areas overlooking Gaillard Lake, and sandy trails leading toward the Gulf beach. The scenery changes quickly from dense pine and live oak forest to open marshes, dunes, and shoreline, providing excellent wildlife viewing opportunities throughout the walk.
Cheaha Mountain, at 2,407 feet (734 m), is the highest natural point in Alabama and
the centerpiece of Cheaha State Park.
Surrounded by the forests of Talladega NationalForest, it offers sweeping mountain views, historic stone structures
built by the Civilian Conservation Corps, and a variety of hiking
opportunities.
Kellisa enjoyed
the natural beauty and the ease of reaching Alabama's highest point at the
southern end of the Appalachian foothills. The iconic stone observation tower
and forested landscape emphasizes that this is a destination where visitors can
experience impressive mountain scenery with minimal effort.
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Russell Cave National Monument offers a fascinating blend of natural beauty and human history, preserving one of the most significant prehistoric archaeological sites in the southeastern United States. Our trip photos emphasize both the peaceful forest setting and the impressive cave entrance, showing that this national monument is as much about experiencing history as it is enjoying outdoors. Our visit centers on an easy walk through the woods to a remarkable cave shelter where people lived seasonally for thousands of years.
We close
out this series of posts with a final collection of Egypt between 2010 and
2020. The following pictures capture dozens of everyday moments and special
occasions that together tell the story of an active, adventurous, and deeply
loved child. When viewed together, all are classic “Egypt.”
Egypt is a joyful, confident, and an endlessly curious young girl whose personality shines through every stage of childhood. Her smile is one of the most consistent features throughout the collection. Whether she is dressed casually, celebrating holidays, traveling, playing outdoors, posing with family, or simply enjoying childhood, she is genuinely happy and comfortable in front of the camera. The images reveal a girl who embraces new experiences with enthusiasm and confidence.
Egypt is
someone who has always been fascinated by animals, whether they are wild,
dangerous, gentle, or simply unusual. Rather than watching wildlife from a
distance, she is happiest when she can experience it up close. Throughout the
photos, Egypt is confident, curious, and eager to learn about the creatures she
encounters.
From
standing near wild alligators and crocodiles in Everglades
National Park to observing majestic elk walking through her campsite in Yellowstone National Park, Egypt embraces every
opportunity to experience nature firsthand. The pictures also show her comfort with
snakes—even welcoming them into her living room—demonstrating that fear rarely
gets in the way of her curiosity. Visits to zoos, aquariums, wildlife parks,
and nature centers add to an impressive collection of encounters with animals
from around the United States.
Egypt could
barely contain her excitement as we traveled to Minneapolis. She never moved so
fast through an airport and as soon as Egypt saw a door to the outside, she
took off running. Before I knew it, she was around a corner and in the middle
of a pile of snow with the biggest smile her little face could make. The snow
and cold was everything and more than she anticipated.
Egypt has crossed paths with celebrities of varying degrees over the years, including some of her favorite singers at the time.
MattyB
Houston,
TX
February
11, 2018
Sisters Forever
After moving across the country in 2016 and finishing our quest to hike in all 50 states, 2017 was still a year filled with many adventures and fun times.
The year
started out with some of Kellisa's hiking adventures featured in the new
book, families on foot. We also went to Yosemite
National Park for the first time, and the girls enjoyed Disney on Ice in
Sacramento. Our family vacation for the year was a week in the Pacific
Northwest where we visited several national parks and hiked with a large group
of wheelchairs. Kellisa really enjoyed not being the only one in a chair on a
trail.

Our
family would relocate from Jacksonville, FL to Sacramento, CA in 2016 for my
job. Our plan to move at the end of the kid's school year was changed when Lisa
accepted a position that started in mid-January.
After
spending many New Year's Days exploring the Okefenokee Swamp, we spent the
first day of 2016 at the Wichita Mountains Wildlife Refuge in Oklahoma.
We were
driving Lisa's van to California over the long holiday weekend and chose a
route that went through Oklahoma so Egypt could claim a new state visited and
knock off another state that both girls hiked together.
The
little girl who wasn't supposed to survive more than a few hours at most turned
16-years-old in May 2015. Kellisa endured 22 surgeries, countless seizures, and
too many medical appointments and tests to count or even make an educated guess
before arriving at her milestone birthday.
Left
& Middle- Blue Springs State Park
Right-
Merritt Island National Wildlife Refuge
Kellisa's
first wilderness experience happened on January 1, 2000, with a hike while attached to Lisa in a baby carrier at Blue Springs State Park, FL. 15 years later, to the day, we
returned to the park for our first outdoor excursion of the year. We stopped at
Merritt Island National Wildlife Refuge the following day on our drive back
home.
Egypt not
only wanted to join her sister on her adventures, but it had become clear that Egypt
also shared the same passion for travel, hiking, camping, and wildlife
observations.
We
started with a 25K race across the desert in Big Bend National Park in January.
Kellisa was the first wheelchair finisher in the history of the race.
After three surgeries in 2011, Kellisa was able to go another year without a surgery.
We
started the year off on the 1st of January with a day trip to the Okefenokee
Swamp followed by a few local hikes, and Kellisa's first driving lesson in a
golf cart.
Top
Left- Chasing Egypt (Okefenokee Swamp) Top Right- Julington-Durbin,
Jacksonville, FL Bottom- Golf cart driving lessons, Peace River, FL
Lisa
received an unexpected phone call in October. “We know you’re only interested
in school age children, but would you be interested in a 16-month-old
girl?”
They
needed an answer immediately. I was out of town on business when Lisa called.
Without hesitation or deep discussion, we agreed that we were interested. I was
still out of town the next night when Lisa called and asked me, “Where can I
find a hammer?”
Lisa
needed the hammer to build our crib, just in case we were chosen as the family
for this little girl. Instead of saying, “You don’t need a hammer to build the
crib,” I told Lisa where to find a hammer. I also figured we had zero chance of
getting the girl.
We continued submitting on children into the new year without any success. We were lucky if we received an automatic email reply with the subject, "Your Submittal Has Been Received".
Our first
trip of the year was during Kellisa's spring break a week after I completed my
2nd Bataan Memorial Death March. The first weekend was also Easter, so we spent
a few days in Texas visiting family before Lisa went home and Kellisa and
headed for a week in the Southwest. While in Texas, we went for a nice hike at
Brazos Bend State Park where we enjoyed its abundant birds and alligators.
One of
our all-time favorite places to explore and we tried to start each year off
with a visit. January 1, 2009, was no different and it would set the pace for
what would become Kellisa's most adventurous year by far.
Kellisa
had outgrown even the largest baby jog strollers, and we broke two frames on a
jog stroller made for special needs children. We needed a new solution and
after many hours of research, we purchased a WIKE. The chair looks awesome and
offers a ton of weather protection; however, it is not built for rugged trails.
We still have it and it has its uses; it's just not an all-around mobility
device for our needs.
Kellisa turned 27 years old today. We let her sleep in a little
and ended up going out for a movie and dinner. Everyone enjoyed the new movie,
Michael, about Michael Jackson. Instead of cake, we lived it up at an ice
cream shop on our way home where we sang Happy Birthday to Kellisa. Once home,
Kellisa opened her cards and presents before spending the rest of the evening watching
TV with her family in the living room.
Not bad for the 25 week micro-preemie.
Kellisa
went another calendar year without surgery.
Hannah Montana came to Jacksonville in January. The concert sold out in minutes before we were able to buy tickets. We even tried to buy accessible tickets without success. I couldn’t pull the trigger to buy three tickets together that were selling for thousands online. It was breaking my heart that I didn’t have tickets for Kellisa.
Kellisa
really started to thrive with her newfound medical stability. She started
taking dance lessons and it was obvious from the start that Kellisa has the
heart of a dancer. Kellisa danced in her first recital, and she garnered the
loudest cheers from the audience during the encore.
2006
started with Kellisa’s 4th surgery in four months. Both hips
were dislocated again, requiring another surgery of cutting bones, inserting
screws, and hardware. It was followed with the same six brutal weeks of
recovery.
After 18
months without a trip or trail, I was eager to get Kellisa back outside. I
wanted to push our limits and see what we could do on trails. I even bought the
largest baby jog stroller I could find so we wouldn’t have to use her
wheelchair anymore.
After a few
good hikes in 2004, I thought 2005 would be our year to get out and explore. The
outdoors would be ours!
I was
wrong, very wrong!
The year
started out with a surgery to remove the hardware from Kellisa hips. The six-week
recovery period was as brutal as the original surgery. Thankfully, The Wiggles
were there to help Kellisa through another difficult six weeks.
Kellisa
wasn’t drinking and her only fluid intake was through the limited food she was
eating. There was only so much pudding we could force into her mouth. She
wasn’t thriving and required surgery to place a G-tube in the summer. With a
G-tube, we would be able to give Kellisa the fluid she needed, and prescription
formula would guarantee she would receive all the nutrition required to start
growing. Of course, Kellisa suffered from complications that required a second
surgery to remove the original G-tube and replace it with another. The doctor had
been placing G-tubes for 26 years and Kellisa was the first patient to ever
require a second surgery. Kellisa was an expert at confusing doctors.
Kellisa was slowly dying before our eyes and no one in the medical community was able to figure out what was wrong.
Kellisa's
smile and love of life were gone. She was battling high fevers for weeks.
Nothing was bringing her temperature down to normal. She saw a doctor every few
days and was in and out of the ER and hospitals without any relief. Once again,
Kellisa was baffling the doctors.
From
early on, Lisa was convinced it was the shunt. After a CT scan and MRI, we were
assured that the shunt was fine. Kellisa's shunt had been in place for a long
enough time that a shunt infection was very unlikely. The neurosurgeon didn’t
want to tap the shunt to check the cerebral fluid for an infection because if
it wasn’t infected, the procedure itself carried a 2% risk of infecting the
shunt.
Kellisa
finally went a year without brain surgery. However, her seizures took a turn
for the worse. Kellisa spent five days in the hospital paralyzed after one
seizure. The neurologist had no choice but to max out Kellisa’s medications to
get the seizures under control. She continued to have seizures, just less
frequent and severe with paralysis usually lasting less than an hour.
Kellisa was up at midnight so she could welcome the new year, 2000, into her life since it was a major accomplishment and reason to celebrate.
Later in
the day, we went to Blue Springs State Park about an hour from our home. We saw
a sign that swimming was allowed in the spring, but there was also a warning
about the possibility of alligators in the water. Florida was still very new to
us and the idea of taking a plunge on New Year's Day into 72-degree water was
appealing to me.
The one
normal thing we did was order a large wooden stork to be placed on our front
lawn for Kellisa’s arrival. It was huge with a large red heart painted with
Kellisa’s name and date of birth. When we arrived home, we took celebratory
pictures of Kellisa with the stork in front of our house. After the pictures,
Lisa carried Kellisa through our front door for the first time. Kellisa was
home.
My dad
wasn’t known for sharing his feelings. He kept them inside due to a rough
childhood without a father. His father showed up unexpected to say “Goodbye” as
my dad left for a tour in Vietnam, just in case my dad didn’t make it home
alive. This was the last time my dad would see his father and I would never
know my paternal grandfather.
My dad
learned early and often how to keep his feelings from others. I can only
remember him telling me that he loved me once and that was while he was hugging
me right after Everett passed away. He whispered those three words into my ear.
This would be the first of only three times I ever saw my dad cry. The second
would be when my mom joined Everett 8 years later. The third was earlier in the
day when he realized we lost Kirsten.