Saturday, April 18, 2020

9th Most Popular Blog Post (as of 4.15.20)

If Kellisa could communicate better, I'm confident our 9th most popular post would also be in her top 10 greatest days of her life. Back in May 2017, Kellisa attended the Evening of Dreams dance. It started with a special ride to the red carpet before entering the "Under the Sea" themed prom for individuals with special needs. The annual Evening of Dreams became a highlight for Kellisa we all anticipated with great joy. After 3 years of going, Kellisa's streak is coming to a gap in 2020 due to COVID-19. Hopefully, all will be back to normal soon and Kellisa can attended her next Evening of Dreams in May 2021. 

I originally posted this story on May 21, 2017. Here's the link:


                            #10 Escaping with our Lives (A 1st Anniversary Story)

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Wednesday, April 15, 2020

10th Most Popular Blog Post (as of 4.15.20)

I was looking at the 10 most popular posts on this blog and many of them surprised me, so I thought it might be a cool idea to share the Top 10 again. 

Starting with #10, we go all the way back to a story from March 1990 when Lisa and I attempted to celebrate our 1st wedding anniversary with a camping trip to Apple Canyon in NW Illinois.

I originally posted this story on March 18, 2015. Here's the link:



Sunday, April 12, 2020

Day 30: COVID-19

Hopefully, every one reading this had a safe and Happy Easter!

We colored Easter Eggs on Saturday afternoon. Everyone was flexible and hopeful since all we had was brown eggs. We were all pleasantly surprised at how cool the coloring turned out, especially once they were dry. 

Saturday, April 11, 2020

Days 23 - 29: COVID-19

This week was Spring Break for the girls and we stayed home. In fact, Kellisa never left the house and Laurel never ventured outside except for a few brief moments in the backyard. We never made any firm plans for the week, but there's a better than average chance we would have gone somewhere if we weren't on a lock down. The Redwoods and Grand Canyon were two places at the top of my ideas list. Hopefully soon!

The days continue to march along without a lot of distinction. We are fortunate to be healthy, working from home, and well supplied with food. Like many people, grocery shopping is a challenge with shelves half empty, but we're doing a pretty good job of making creative meals with what we find. Lisa is doing a great job of making sure we have vegetables everyday and some kind of fruit most days. This update will focus on the food...the highlight of Spring Break Week 2020.



Kellisa let me braid her hair one night and I'm proud of the outcome

Full moon over Roseville, CA




Little lizard living under our backyard deck
  
Evie enjoying some sun in the backyard






Laurel's mushrooms were ready for harvest

Mushrooms, eggs, sausage, and potatoes

Brunswick Stew, Cornbread, and Sweet Tea

Norm of the North (Family Movie Night)

Day 22

Day 30

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Monday, April 6, 2020

Black Mesa

Memories Revisited:

Kellisa's 8th State Highpoint

Black Mesa, Oklahoma
4,973ft.

Round Trip Hiking Distance: 8.4 Miles
Elevation Gain: 654ft.

April 2008


Our first father/daughter Spring Break trip happened in 2008. The main objective was to reach the Highpoint of Oklahoma. The plan was to fly to Amarillo, TX and have our cousin Matt pick us up, as he was able to join us for this trip. However, we almost did not make it to Amarillo. We had a stopover in Dallas that included a severe seizure that lasted longer than 5 minutes. Paramedics had to be called and airport police also hustled to the scene. Just as everyone was arriving, Kellisa popped out of her seizure.


Since the paramedics were on scene, they had to check Kellisa out. At the same time, a police officer starts questioning me about Kellisa. "Where is her mother? Is she Hispanic? Do you have the mother's approval to be traveling out of state?" I did not let the questions bother me as I figured he was just doing his job in a border state. Kellisa checked out OK and they offered to transport her to the hospital for further evaluations. Did I ever miss Lisa at this point. We are use to making joint decisions in these situations.

If we go on...am I just being selfish? Would I ever forgive myself if something happened in the air?

If we stay...we are entirely stuck in Dallas and for how long? Matt will be waiting in Amarillo for a long time.

Even though Kellisa struggles with communication, we try and give her a say in these situations. Kellisa was looking good as she did not have the usual paralysis that follows even a mild seizure. I'm sweating bullets as I ask her if she is OK and ready for one more airplane ride. She answers "Yes" and that was good enough for me.

We were far from our gate and it was past the departure time. We hurry to the gate and to our good fortune, the gate agent has held the plane because he had seen us at the gate earlier and knew we where around somewhere. He was also listening to the rescue on his radio and assumed it was us. I was very appreciative that he held the entire plane about 15 minutes just for us.

How about one more problem? We fly Southwest and they are well known for not assigning seats. With Kellisa, we are always the first to board. However, being the last on a full flight would mean that we both would get stuck with middle seats and who knows how close together? I think the gate agent saw some fear in my face and correctly assumed why it was there. He told us not to worry because he had the flight attendants hold two seats in the front row. Gotta love Southwest! The flight was uneventful and we met Matt at the airport just as planned.

The following day we made the long drive to Black Mesa as we introduced Matt to Hannah Montana. Almost 4 years later, he can still sing some of the songs he heard that spring day.

Kellisa is all smiles at the start of the hike:


Views along the trail:



Most of the elevation gained on this hike can be seen in the picture below as the rocky trail works it's way up the side of Black Mesa:


The next 8 pictures were taken by Matt as I pushed Kellisa up the trail to the top of Black Mesa:









Looking back over the landscape from the top of Black Mesa:


Even though we made it to the top, we still needed to hike approximately 30 minutes along a relatively flat trail to the granite monument that marks the actual high point:



The top of Oklahoma:





At the edge of Black Mesa before we started our descent:



Kellisa still smiling back at the car:


Beautiful sunset as we leave the highpoint area:


Original Blog Post Date: January 20, 2012