After
many years of countless negative results, I failed to get excited while Lisa
went through the process of completing the test. To our shock and excitement,
the test came back positive. It was after 10pm on New Year’s Eve, but we wanted
to be 100% sure before we got too excited. Lisa found a clinic open and we
raced to have another test completed.
Tuesday, May 19, 2026
1999 - Part I (Kellisa's First 18 Years)
Monday, May 18, 2026
A Personal Wheelchair User's Experience Flying Southwest Airlines with Assigned Seats
SMF-AUS-MCI
May 9, 2026
MCI-PHX-SMF
May 15, 2026
Kellisa flew four segments last week on Southwest Airlines. This was her first trip since Southwest changed their seating policy to assigned seats. Kellisa has flown Southwest almost exclusively over the past 20 years. The only exceptions were trips to Hawaii and Alaska before Southwest started flying to the 49th and 50th states and one trip to Billings.
Saturday, May 16, 2026
"A Day of Flights"
9 years ago...1/3 of Kellisa's life has gone by since we gave her the present of "A Day of Flights." May 16, 2017 was one of the greatest days of Kellisa’s life and I haven't been able to come up with a better birthday celebration, despite many hours of racking my brain.
After many months of planning and finally pulling off the day better than I dreamed, I was struggling to post about it. Thankfully, Lisa came to the rescue and for the first time in this blog's history, Lisa has written a post and it captures the day and our gift of flights to Kellisa for her birthday better than I could have ever done. *This is also by far the most popular post on our little blog.
Saturday, May 2, 2026
Monday, April 20, 2026
A Wheelchair Accessibility Guide to Palm Springs and Joshua Tree National Park
Three years ago, Kellisa
and I had a week open for adventure. We decided to spend our time down in the
Palm Springs area to explore some new areas while making a return visit to
Joshua Tree National Park. Thanks to COVID, this would be Kellisa's first flight
in 50 months, by far the longest she ever went without being on an
airplane.
We had such a great time, we thought we would share our guide to the Palm Springs region again for our readers.
Thanksgiving 2025 on the Bay

Sunday, April 19, 2026
Sunday, April 12, 2026
Saturday, April 11, 2026
Swimming with Pigs
Bahamas
May 30, 2025
to
June 7, 2025
Swimming with Pigs in the Bahamas was a dream father-daughter trip for Egypt for many years and we finally made it happen in 2025. I decided to use most of my airline and hotel points to give Egypt a special trip since she had been asking for this for many years and I realize that one of these trips will be our last trip as she starts her adult life in the near future. I'll still hope for many more.
Tuesday, April 7, 2026
Heart-Shaped Stone
This
is the mysterious story of Kellisa’s 25th surgery which took place in
February 2025 at Suter Roseville Medical Center. The surgery lasted three
hours when the surgeon told us it should only take 60 minutes.
October 2024 – Kellisa had her first riding horse therapy session in more than 10 years and loved getting back in the saddle. Unfortunately, she started complaining of pain in her hips shortly after the ride. We took her to the doctor when the pain didn’t go away after a few days, and pain relievers weren’t helping. Tests were run and a few x-rays were taken. Nothing was obvious as far as her pain in the hip area, but in the corner of one of the x-rays, the radiologist saw something they couldn’t explain. A dark area of the stomach led them to believe a foreign object was “trapped” and would require further investigation.
Saturday, February 7, 2026
Thursday, December 11, 2025
Sunday, December 7, 2025
Trans-Siberian Orchestra - The Ghosts of Christmas Eve (Accessible Guide - Golden 1 Center)
In
late November 2025, our family kicked off the Christmas season with an
unforgettable afternoon at Sacramento's Golden 1 Center to see the Trans-Siberian
Orchestra perform The Ghosts of Christmas Eve.
While the music was spectacular, what stood out just as much was how easy the
arena made the experience for Kellisa, proving that accessibility and
world-class entertainment can go hand in hand.
This wasn't our first Trans-Siberian Orchestra concert. Lisa and I had seen the band back in Jacksonville in 2010, but that experience was cut short because we had to leave halfway through to relieve the babysitter. Fifteen years later, things were very different. Instead of worrying about getting home early, we were able to enjoy the concert together as a family, sharing the experience with Kellisa and Egypt. It was a reminder of how quickly life changes and how special it is to create new traditions together.











